Leaping into new adventures |
A year ago this month, I “retired” from
my lifelong career in newspapers. I left filled with the anxiety common
to my generation.
What would I do? Who would I be?
Like a move to a new city, people said, “Give it two
years. You’re in transition.”
To what? And why wait?
I decided to do what journalists do: I began to interview
others who were going through what I was going through – the transition from
career to what I call the “next great thing.”
And because I
cringe at the word “retired,” I called my blog “UnRetiring.”
This new stage of life is in the spotlight now. It’s
new because so many people are living healthy so much longer. Just as
adolescence now seems to stretch to age 30 or so, “middle age” is creeping into
Medicare land. And it’s exploding because the Boomers, the oldest of whom are
66, are now stepping into it.
Over the year, I have been surprised by the ways
people are reinventing themselves as well as by their range of emotions.
I’ve talked with people who feel guilty if they’re
not somehow contributing to bettering the world. And others who feel totally
guilt-free, thrilled to be mostly just improving themselves. I’ve learned how
much harder it is to enter this stage of life if you were forced out of the old
one through a downsizing; the ego bruising lingers on. And I’ve laughed a lot,
learning about late love affairs and unlikely leaps.
Speaking of leaps, I’ve been advised to be mindful
of plunging in and to learn to say “no.” Instead, in exploration mode, I’ve said “yes” to almost every idea that’s
come my way, creating exhaustion and exhilaration.
Rick Cooper -- playing with locks |
Once on the other side, I found that organizations
have sprung up around the country to help people who want meaning in their
lives to find ways to do so. And I’ve also found people in transition eager to talk--
one on one, in small living room groups, and through this blog.
Today, in the first installment for philly.com, I’ll
share the story of Rick Cooper, a New Hampshire locksmith I met by chance one
dark and dreary night. My interviews will run daily through this Friday, then
weekly on Mondays
http://unretiring.blogspot.com/2012/07/rick-rescues-damsel-in-distress.html
http://unretiring.blogspot.com/2012/07/rick-rescues-damsel-in-distress.html
Read
past interviews and get a glimpse of Dotty Brown’s own transition over the past
year at www.unRetiring.blogspot.com
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